Are you giving from your overflow or are you running on empty and just going through the motions?
As a mother and a wife, it has taken me years to put my self-care front and center. In fact the more I can love and nurture myself, the more I can be present with my loved ones.
I have to work at it, because I like to serve others. But when I kept finding myself burned out and exhausted, I had to make some conscious and deliberate changes.